James Steinberg
If you slipped under the covers at 2am, knowing your alarm was set for 6am, how do you think you would feel the next morning? You may be imagining a day of aching eyes and clouded thoughts, but it is perfectly possible to wake up feeling clear-headed and positive, then spend the day happily socialising, or even doing a spot of exercise.
For most of us, this sounds like a dream. We live in a world obsessed with how little sleep we get and how rubbish that makes us feel. Many of us chase solutions 鈥 wearing eye masks, using blue-light filters, eating sleep-boosting probiotics 鈥 all in the pursuit of that golden 8 hours of sleep.
But what if the secret to feeling restored has little to do with how much we have actually slept? A wave of new research is suggesting that, in many cases, the way we think about sleep matters more than the hours we get. Simply believing you are well-rested can be enough to create the positive mental and physical benefits of a peaceful slumber. The question then becomes, how do you trick yourself into thinking you have slept better than you have? The answer may be easier than you think.
The power of mindset
The idea that a simple shift in perspective can leave you feeling rested might sound absurd, but two decades of research have established that mindset has a powerful influence on our health and behaviour. Teaching children to embrace a growth mindset 鈥 the belief that their abilities can improve with learning 鈥 is now common practice in UK schools after studies showed that young people who viewed their mind as malleable, rather than fixed, coped better with failure and were more willing to take on new challenges.
Likewise, a person鈥檚 鈥渟tress mindset鈥 is closely linked to their physical and mental health: those who view stress as energising, rather than debilitating, show more adaptive physiological responses to stress and tend to perform better under pressure. Perhaps the most well-studied demonstration of mindset is its contribution to the placebo effect, with substantial evidence showing that merely believing that something will make you feel better can produce measurable physiological changes, even in the absence of an active drug.
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Given this surfeit of evidence showing how mindset shapes our waking lives, researchers have now begun to explore whether similar effects apply to sleep. While chronic bad sleep is linked to poor health, it has also become apparent that even one or two bad nights鈥 rest can make us and reduce our , impairing skills like . Yet we are surprisingly poor judges of how well we have slept. This even applies long term, and have established that some people develop an 鈥渋nsomnia identity鈥: more than a third of those who consider themselves insomniacs are, in fact, getting decent sleep. This has led several researchers to ask whether our beliefs and expectations about sleep itself can shape how we feel.
, at the University of California, Los Angeles, and his colleagues tracked 249 people with depression for 13 weeks, taking note of both their actual sleep time using smartwatches and their self-reported sleep behaviour. The mismatch between the two sets of data was striking: many people claimed they had slept terribly, saying it had taken them a long time to get to sleep and that they had woken many times in the night. But the objective data showed that simply wasn鈥檛 true.
Notably, when participants performed cognitive tests, it was the self-reported sleep quality that predicted how well they did, rather than the objective sleep metrics. In other words, the belief that they had slept badly impaired their thinking the next day more than the sleep itself.
This is one of several new hinting that the way we think about sleep has powerful effects on our subsequent emotions and cognition. In an earlier, slightly mischievous experiment, performed in 2021, researchers allowed 16 adults to sleep for 8 hours on one day, followed by 5 hours the next. Upon waking, a secretly manipulated clock informed the participants how much they had slept. They then rated their subjective sleepiness and took part in a vigilance test that recorded their reaction times.
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When people were engaged in more positive physical activity, their sleep-quality rating tended to go up
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Those who believed they had slept 8 hours 鈥 but who had actually slept only 5 鈥 performed compared with those who had got 8 hours but thought they had been asleep for 5. Making a person believe they had slept more poorly than they did reduced their reaction times by around 20 milliseconds. This, the team says, is equivalent to the kind of deterioration in performance you would see when someone has four nights of 5 hours鈥 sleep or two nights with only 3 hours of sleep.
The participants鈥 brain activity told an even more intriguing story. Slow-wave activity in the brain, called delta power, correlates with what we know as 鈥渟leep drive鈥 鈥 the urge to sleep. Delta power is slowest upon waking and increases throughout the day, pushing you to get some shuteye at night. As expected, delta power increased more in the daytime following the 5-hour sleep compared with the 8-hour rest. However, when participants thought they had slept longer than they did, there was a relative reduction in delta power during the day. It appears that simply believing you slept well has a powerful neurological effect, shifting your sleep drive and making you feel more alert for longer.
This all suggests that changing how we think about the amount of sleep we get might help us respond better to a lack of Zs. But to fully utilise this power, we also need to consider how people judge whether they have had a good or bad night鈥檚 sleep.
at the University of Warwick, UK, spotted a gap in our knowledge in this department. 鈥淲hen you talk to people about sleep quality, everybody thinks they know exactly what they are talking about. It鈥檚 something so familiar, and yet we often have different ideas and different definitions of it,鈥 says Tang.
She noticed that, when assessing sleep, people would not only talk about the rest they had, but also about how they had felt the day before or the morning after. All too often, she says, sleep experts concentrate on the nighttime hours. 鈥淲e realised we needed to stretch the timespan to look at what was happening either side of sleep, as well as what happened during the night.鈥
Tang and her colleagues asked 聽鈥 with each made up of various parameters chosen at random by a computer 鈥 and choose which reflected the best night鈥檚 sleep.
A typical scenario might say something like:聽鈥淚 did a lot yesterday, I felt positive when I went to bed. I felt moderately sleepy. My mind was blank, but I felt very comfortable lying in bed. It took me no time to fall asleep. I woke a number of times, but only very briefly. I slept for about 5.5 hours and I didn鈥檛 dream. On waking, I felt motivated to get out of bed. During the day, I felt drowsy and my head felt cloudy. My mood was bad, and I was sociable.鈥
How we think about the way we have slept has a radical impact on how we feel
It may sound a little nonsensical, but by analysing the responses given over multiple trials, the researchers could tease apart which factors were the most influential in forming our judgement of sleep quality.
What they discovered was surprising: our thoughts about the quality of our sleep aren鈥檛 determined solely by what happens at night. The person鈥檚 鈥渓evel of physical activity, their mood, their social ability, whether or not they can think straight鈥 all affected judgements of sleep quality, says Tang.
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A few nights鈥 bad sleep doesn鈥檛 break us 鈥 unless we believe it does
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Which got Tang thinking: if what happens during the day influences perceptions of the previous night鈥檚 sleep, then perhaps a person鈥檚 feelings about their sleep changes as the day unfolds.
To test this idea, she concocted a follow-up study, where 119 adults were asked to rate the quality of their previous night鈥檚 sleep every 2 hours between 8am and 10pm. They were also asked to provide information about their mood, their physical and social activity and any pain or discomfort. Finally, at the end of the day, participants took a test that asked them to remember what they had reported at the beginning of the day.
More than 90 per cent of the participants changed their rating of how well they thought they had slept at least once. This wasn鈥檛 down to forgetfulness 鈥 all those who had altered their rating remembered what they had put at the start of the day. Far from being a static figure, people鈥檚 rating fluctuated as the day unfolded. What improved people鈥檚 perceptions of their sleep most strongly? Physical activity.
鈥淲hen people were engaged in more positive physical activity, their sleep-quality rating tended to go up,鈥 says Tang. That held true even when they had experienced an objectively bad night鈥檚 sleep. Tang suggests that even when you have had little sleep, dragging yourself to the gym isn鈥檛 such a bad idea 鈥 it might positively reshape your memory of sleep, leading to beneficial knock-on effects.
After sleeping poorly, people tend to cancel meetings, avoid exercise and think they shouldn鈥檛 go out, she says. All these thoughts are safety behaviours that put a boundary on what you do, but the research indicates this might also stop you from positively revising the way you see your sleep.
A lot of people don鈥檛 realise that we are remarkably adept at coping with short-term sleep loss. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a resilience we have forgotten about,鈥 says Tang. 鈥淚f your concept of sleep quality is not as rigid, if you know you can change it, then you can help yourself feel better.鈥 Essentially, a few nights鈥 bad sleep doesn鈥檛 break us 鈥 unless we believe it does.
How to change your perception of sleep
Most of the research on sleep mindset looks at what happens when you miss one or two nights鈥 sleep. But it could also be helpful for people with long-term sleep struggles. That could be very impactful, because we know that chronic sleep problems carry serious health consequences, including an increased risk of diabetes, cardiovascular disease and dementia.
While there are many reasons why people may have long-term troubles with sleep, one factor can be as simple as short-term sleep loss spiralling into insomnia. Beliefs about poor sleep can become self-fulfilling: when people think they have slept badly, it can make them worried about not sleeping enough and anxious about the following night鈥檚 sleep, says Tang. This can put the brain into a high arousal state, meaning that they are more easily woken up throughout the night, with bad sleep continuing as a result.
Exercising is a powerful way to reframe how you feel, after a poor night’s sleep Connect Images / Alamy Stock Pho
Actively reshaping your perception of last night鈥檚 sleep the next day 鈥 through exercise, say 鈥 could help to break this cycle. Another way to do this seems to be through mindfulness.
In a study led by at Nox Health in Alpharetta, Georgia, researchers used EEG to examine the overnight brain activity of people before and after they completed eight weekly mindfulness sessions alongside daily practice. Their sleep improved, yet their brain showed increased activity associated with wakefulness during the night.
Ong says the researchers think that the mindfulness practice 鈥 which is a type of meditation that trains your mind to pay more attention to the experiences both inside and outside your body without judgement 鈥 changed the participants鈥 mindset at night. When they woke up, they were better able to control their emotional response and avoid anxious thoughts, preventing the damaging spirals that often fuel insomnia. 鈥淔rom that standpoint鈥 it鈥檚 changing how they perceive or relate to the state of being asleep [or awake],鈥 he says.
One final way to create a more positive mindset around sleep is to re-examine how many hours you think you need in the first place. Eight hours is often said to be the gold standard, but that isn鈥檛 true for everyone (see 鈥淗ow much sleep do you actually need?鈥, below). 鈥淓ven healthy sleepers may internalise an ideal 鈥 often 8 hours 鈥 that doesn鈥檛 match their personal physiological needs, creating a subtle but persistent expectation gap,鈥 says at the University of La Laguna in Spain. 鈥淗elping people recalibrate expectations can reduce worry and improve sleep satisfaction, even without increasing total sleep time.鈥
Of course, none of this is a reason to abandon good sleep-hygiene practices like avoiding bright screens before bed, making sure you see light at the beginning of the day and eating well.
The ideal would be to get more sleep in the first place, but where that isn鈥檛 possible, it should be reassuring to know that all is not lost. A simple change in mindset may give you that much-needed energy boost, resetting your brain for a day of clarity and positivity and a night of peaceful slumber 鈥 even after an uncomfortably early rise.
How much sleep do you actually need?
Sleep anxiety can be fuelled by the perceived need to get 8 hours of sleep a night. But although that is often heralded as the magic number, many people can cope well with less.
Research has shown that cultural expectations play a huge role in how people appreciate sleep. People in pre-industrial agricultural societies typically get between 5.7 and 7.1 hours of sleep per night, and report being with their sleep quality. For those in industrial societies, there is when you consistently get more than 6 hours, while those who sleep tend to live longer than those who sleep for more extended periods.
To figure out your ideal number, you should identify a time within the past year when you consistently had the most sleep 鈥 or in the past 10 years, if you are aged 30 or older 鈥 and use that average duration as an initial target, says , co-director of sleep medicine at Harvard Medical School. 鈥淚mportantly, only consider the actual time asleep and not the time you were in bed,鈥 he says.
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